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Really Tim? were you just going to say "thank you" and leave it at that? Probably not, most likely youd get into why youre thanking her and instead you should just leave it and carry on as normal .
Do what you want though . That's where trial and error comes in.
I don't go on twitter often . I hate twitter, its full of twits SO I saw your post recently and then soon after I saw your similar post on here. It was very coincidental .
Its not far fetched to think you played out the scenario since you have been playing it out even here on the forum and on twitter.
Don't be a nut job. I didn't say that video games cuase shootings don't be a cathy newman.
It is true though that people are influenced by things they enjoy . From art to entertainment. I dare you to tell me that's wrong.
I get that you love anime, because when I make fun of it you get salty. Lots of people tie things they like into their own personality so that's why you take it personal when I make fun of it. Its normal.
I think a person shouldn't care so much about what others think. If I saw anime sucks , you should be able to say ah well I enjoy it. If you cant , that's not my problem. You are the one who has to deal with how YOU deal with that situation.
Also my rant about people not living their lives wasn't about you. I said I went off on a tangent and I did. A personal one. Not everything is about you. ANd no it wasn't about me, but people in my life.
Do you think Law didn't get picked on? When I came from Greece I was so dark EVERYONE called me a paki. I had bullies who would find me every day after school and push me around and beat me up .
Girls never liked me as I had a stupid hair cut and was pretty goofy.
I got made fun of for things I liked too. But I did them anyway and eventually stopped caring that others made fun of it.
I joined all the sports teams to avoid getting beat up after school.
By the time I got to high school I was athletic , played the guitar, and had a stupid haircut but one that was deemed cool .
As for you mom and dad.... It sucks but EVERYONE has a story. My dad died when I was 16 and I failed school and didn't do much of anything. I finally got sick of that though and tried to come up with a plan. Why do you think ive only graduated college recently.
Everyone has problems. But I don't deal in what if. I think about what IS , and what I need to do to better myself .
I have a friend who does that too. Wants to make everyone elses day a little better. wants to make things easier for them. So he bends over backwards to please everyone and do what he can for everyone else. Those people walk all over him. He is the most miserable person I know. They use him. they never pay him back in any way. His ex uses him, his job uses him but hes just happy to help.
It is weird to see a girl you had a crush on but never made a move on and then one day she has a kid or two and you might wonder what would have happened if I did something? IMO its not too big of a deal when youre young. What do you think will happen youll fall in love and start a family?
Chances are you will have a kid, then break up and your life is screwed like what happens with most young people who think thats all there is to life.
I dont think anyone under 30 should be getting into serious relationships. They typically dont last and then you have kids and alimony and child support and you havent even lived your life yet.
Go enjoy life. Do some travel , get some education and some work experience. Date women but dont try to lock one down. Try to develop yourself. Try new things, stop worrying about what people think and just say what you want and do what you want. Within reason.
When youre older and you have some life experience behind you then look at starting a family if thats what you want. but look for someone else who also lived life.
There are lots of miserable people out there and one thing lots have in common is they finished high school had kids and then had to get some job to support them. then they spend all that time supporting kids and dreaming of being able to have free time and money to enjoy life . I know too many people like this.
What are you scared of? Youre going to die one day. Do you want to be minutes from death thinking, It would have been cool if I had the guts to say this, or do this...
Or you want to go thinking, man that was awesome!
That might have been a bit of a tangent. IN your case , even if this girl was always just a friend to you, dont open up about how she helped you. You dont know her well enough and i know you think that opening up like that will blow her mind or something because thats how anime works, but in reality you will scare her. She will avoid you at all cost. You can definitely say hi and ask if she remembers you, and you can say how shy you were, but dont tell her she helped you and blah blah blah.
You still have time Tim but I know a number of people whose lives are over and they never started. And its mainly becuase they fear change. They wont leave their comfort zone and they are very insecure and unsure of themselves.
Straight up love my Switch... it got me to play Skyrim for the 5th time.
I do love the feel of my pro controller.... it doesnt feel cheap and it performs wonderfully.
If I am docked I only play with that... my joycons have never been off their screen.
I didn't realize The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim was on the Nintendo Switch. How is it? Did they have to make and major concessions for the port that you noticed?
I haven't played it, but the game is fairly old now, so I don't think the switch would have any issue running it. IT does run DOOM so I'm sure skyrim is no issue.
Picked up Kingdoms of Amalur Reckoning for $20 on steam....old school RPG with a pretty big cult following...was originally released on 360 I believe.
pretty basic but still fun and the graphics are decent on PC for a 2012 game
I wonder if you can refund it. Its 9.99 on steam right now for the complete edition.